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NavyMomx2
03-22-2008, 11:30 AM
Okay so, my son is in A school, as most of you know, and is going through the toughest part of his classes and was to take his "final" exam for this part on Thursday. So he takes his test and missed passing by one point. Well, he's not the only one. Out of 11, seven didn't pass. So needless to say, he called Thursday night, very down in the dumps and said he will be recycled and has to retake the class, which doesn't class up until April 7th, pushing his graduation date out, again.

Last night (Friday) he called and seemed to be in a better mood. I asked him what happened today - he said his Chief came to him, as he was the class leader, and told him the they had 5 spots for remeadiale (?) that could continue on without taking the class over and he had to pick the 5 out of the 7 that didn't make it. His choice? He told Chief that he didn't want to make that decision, they all are good guys and asked the Chief to make the choice, but if he was going to choose my son, to take him out of the mix, that he would stay back so someone else could move on. The Chief commended him on a job well done. He told him that this was an awesome sign of leadership and that he will go far in the fleet.

So, while I have to wait another two or three weeks for my Sailor to come home again (maybe sometime mid to late May), I am very proud of what he did. He said to me on the phone, I don't want to disappoint you mom, by not coming home right away, but I know there are other guys that want to go home too, and I don't want to dissapoint their moms and dads, and I think you would have done the same, so I hope you understand. Of course I understand and couldn't be more proud of him. He has really grown up.

I can't say it enough, while I had a part in who he is, the Navy does damn fine work.

Lynette
03-22-2008, 11:43 AM
Oh my gosh....that just brought tears to my eyes!.....I'm very proud of Casey tooo!...that took extreme maturity for his decision....and yes, he will go far!

KYmom
03-22-2008, 01:02 PM
Tell him we are all so proud of him for his decision.

You have raised a wonderful son.

I had a co-worker who was the most self-centered selfish person I have ever meet, who wouldn't give up her day off for a coworker whose dad was dying.
So your story gives me faith in people again, to know there are some non-selfish people in this world.

denmom
03-22-2008, 01:53 PM
Thanks for the Hanky Alert warning.

I am so proud of him as I know you are also.

I know it is bittersweet but you have raised an honorable young man..........

NavyMomx2
03-23-2008, 10:08 AM
Thanks - it really is bittersweet - but I'm so proud of what he did.

Happy Easter!

glennsmom
03-23-2008, 10:00 PM
What an awesome young man you have raised.

Kristie
03-24-2008, 01:12 PM
Beckie....what a wonderful young man you raised....you have every right to be one very proud mom....