No longer with scott

[navygirldarlene]

Hey everyone....Its been a long and stressful couple of months for me and Scott...We haven't really seen each other because of him having Bella and being stressed over getting custody...Well he texted me last night and all he said was "its over" so i texted him this morning and last night asking what did i do and was he mad at me and this was his response:

I am at work. you haven't done anything wrong.i am not mad. i just do not have time for a girlfriend right now and it isnt fair to you that i cant spend time with you. you havent done anything wrong as far as i know of call me later tonight and we will talk ok?

so i love scott to death and bella you all know that but maybe hes right...maybe we should just remain friends..I am leaving for basic in 209 days (yes i am counting) so maybe its a good idea not to be in a relationship. It still hurts though because i care about scott a lot..Well hope you are all doing well talk to you all soon...:bigemo54:

[KYmom]

Sorry to hear.... but as as he said he doesn't have time. So take it at that and be his friend right now. Concentrate on what you have to do - because basically you won't have time for him either (sorry). You both need to concentrate on your own priority's right now and just be each others friend for now and hopefully you will find your way back to each other. Just let him know you love Bella and no matter what happens you want to always have some involvement in Bella's life.True Love will work itself out no matter what, just keep that door open.

[akd72085]

hey darlene...sorry to hear about you and scott...matt said something similar to me! let me know if you need anything...just remember that everything happens for a reason =o)

[ProudNavyGirlfriend]

Hey sweetheart. I'm so sorry that this happened to you. If you ever need a shoulder to cry on, let me know and I will listen to you. I know how it feels and it really does suck... but be there for him when he needs you still and he'll return the favor... and eventually, things will work out when the stresses are down.

[navygirldarlene]

We talked last night and we both agree its for the best...He has some major trust issues and I dont think it would work out when i leave him always thinking im cheating on him at boot camp and a school haha But my friends Sullie and Batman (his name is Bruce Wayne so we call him Batman) Think I'm better off staying single and they have both known me since before me and scott even started dating and they think i can find someone better who will treat me with more respect than scott did even though I love scott to death I think one of the reasons i was staying with Scott was Bella and I realize now no matter how much I love Bella I cant stay in a relationship I'm not happy in just for her...:)

[akd72085]

That is very true Darlene! I love Matt to death as well but I just couldn't be in a relationship with someone who wasn't in it as much anymore. He has major trust issues as well because of his ex-wife even though in the almost full year we were together I never gave him a reason not to trust me. I would never cheat on anyone. I do find myself talking about him now and then so obviously I still miss him, even though its been a little while since I broke up with him. We talk every now and then and he said he realizes his mistake but doesn't think it's fair to me and doesn't want to ruin my life. Told him that was still my choice. SOO...maybe it is for the better for you both right now Dar! If it's meant to be then you will find your way back to each other at some point. And your friends are right, you do deserve to be treated better! Let me know if you need anything

[navygirldarlene]

hey yeah I know what you mean thats how it is with me and Scott..He doesnt understand that I have a lot of male friends and only a few close female friends....its just for some reason i get along with guys a lot better than girls....and yeah me and Scott are still friends and talking.. I told him last night I still love Bella and if he ever needs someone to help babysit let me know that I would love to do it...And yeah my friends both work at Applebees and I am also very good friends with one of the managers so they are trying to get me a job at Applebees at the moment until I leave in October...The way I see it is its a job.. Its a little bit of money coming in until I ship out..

[ProudNavyGirlfriend]

Good plan, sweet. Get some things in order and think or yourself first before anything. Take care of YOU, because you deserve it.

[navygirldarlene]

yeah i know and i know i'll be ok... hehehe i got all of you guys here to help me through it

[ProudNavyGirlfriend]

You sure do, sweetheart. ^-^

[navygirldarlene]

awww I love you Kristi your a great friend :)